Withstand the Pain of Not achieving…
July 15, 2007
Is it very important to withstand the pain of not achieving what we want? Definitely YES!. I always wondered if there are ways in which you can avoid the Pain. But you expect something big from yourself then you must have to bear that pain.
Whenever you want to achieve success and gain out of it, you need to work for it. During the process you go through several stages.
You go through the learning stage. When you do something for the very first time then you need to learn the strategy to achieve the same. Alternatively you can also model other people and learn their strategies and take action to get the results when you want.
Many times when you are learning something new for the first time there is a possibility of Confusion. This is a very important stage where you need to have a solid mindset that YES i am determined to learn and achieve. There are a few people who tend to say “This is not for me”, “this is for only experienced guys!” and many more. This really will pull you down, which means you need to withstand and learn and move forward.
As you learn a very important step is that of “ACTION”. This is where many people fail. I train thousands of people every year, ranging from a 9 year old kid to 75 year old people. Everyone come into my training program and learn many new strategies and techniques and then realize that yes these will work wonders in life when implemented. And majority of them really take action. Thats what really gets them success.
Now when you take action there is no guarantee that you will get your desired result, in fact there is no guarantee that the strategy that you adopt will work and that’s when you get into this stage of Frustration. When Frustration creeps in there are 2 choices that you have and 2 ways in which you can treat the frustration
1. Give Up - Which is what many people do
2. Have the focus and move forward with the commitment to yourself that “YES! I am determined to achieve“.
When you take massive action there is a possibility that you don’t get the result you feel so painful. But this pain is temporary. If you withstand this pain then sure you will have long terms benefits.
I know people who are not willing to bear this pain and make the choice 1 and give up. Later when they see others achieving then realize “Oh God I must have done that”. Its too late and its highly pain staking and its more painful.
These short temporary pains are just to test people and the one who survive it are the ones who create history for themselves.
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