Its your LIFE. Take Responsiblity

September 9, 2007

When we move towards achieving our goals in life, we are bound to face challenges. If we do not face challenges it only means that the goals that we set are not challenging and we are not using the potential what we are capable of. So during these time when we face challenges we do not achieve our goals and we tend to react differently to the situations that arise.

If success is not the immediate outcome of some of the actions that you have taken then you may deem it as a failure and respond in way that would make you a victim. Many people Blame, Excuse and Complain that makes them the Victim. Excuses being one of the most common responses of failures, we tend to not take action considering that we know that anyways we would continue giving the same reason. For example, we definitely know that we must have to exercise everyday and give excuses like there is not time, or there is too much of work and so on. This becomes a pattern and hence no action is taken for reaching the outcome. And even after realizing that its only an excuse we still do not take action because we know that anyways we would give the same excuses.

We tend to blame others and say things like “”My boss was the main reason for me not getting my promotion”, “The business period is dull and so I am not able to grow”, “People annoy me too much and I get frustrated”. These are typical victim stories that do not get us to move ahead in life. In the process we allow others to control our lives. We do not action take action to move forward in achieving the Goal because we expect the same to happen, like you say “anyways my boss would sabotage my promotion so why should I work for a promotion”. This stops you from achieving Success.

Many times you go into the denial mode and complain external events for your so called failure. Ultimately who is responsible for our life? If we allow others to control our life, it does not take us anywhere. We are solely responsible for our life, we must have to take responsibility of everything that happens around us.

Challenges in life can happen and if we are in control of it, then we get the best out of life. CHANGE for yourself and for your life and Take 100% responsibility. Not even 5% of the people in the world follow this. Rest are the victims. Decide for yourself if you want to be a Victim or Take Responsibility and CHANGE.

Make the powerful Choice of Taking 100% RESPONSIBILITY.

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One Response to “Its your LIFE. Take Responsiblity”

poongothai on May 5th, 2008 7:06 am

it isn’t that we allow others to control our life they interfere and intervene in our life. we may not be affected mentally yet to solve it is horrible marring our moving ahead in our life

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